Month: April 2018

  • A FEW THINGS YOU NEED TO KNOW ABOUT ART THERAPY

     

    The practice of art, in whatever form, is undoubtedly and inherently therapeutic. The question is, how can you most benefit in your life from the gifts the arts have to offer? To provide a foundation for answers you can fully understand, I’m going to start with a quote from The Art Therapy Sourcebook by Cathy A. Malchiodi. She is a licensed art therapist and clinical counselor. She points out that people new to the subject can become confused by the term. Its use in many contexts, from the wide range of people and variety of situations where it is applied, gives it a diversity that can obscure its basic definition.

    Ms. Malchiodi states, “The combination of the words art and therapy also can be confusing. Art therapist and psychologist Judith Rubin coined the phrase that opens this section: Art + Therapy = ? This formula conveys the equation that makes up art therapy–the blending of art and therapy. Art therapy is essentially the marriage of two disciplines: art and psychology. Aspects of the visual arts, the creative process, human development, behavior, personality, and mental health, among others, are important to the definition and scope of art therapy. Art therapy brings together all of these disciplines, making it difficult to understand at first glance.”

    The foremost use of art therapy may be the healing of the artist. The concept is that expressing oneself creatively leads to healing and mental well-being. Here’s an example of how this can work, taken from the website for Ragamuffin Creative Arts Therapy.

    “Natalie is 44 years old. She was referred to an Arts Therapist because of the decline in her physical and mental health. Her body was full of symptoms that doctors couldn’t find a cause for. Natalie was aggressive and often violent in her relationships and as a result they would often breakdown leaving her isolated and alone. The day she met the Arts Therapist she was desperate for help. The Arts Therapist invited Natalie to pour all her distress into a ‘sandtray’ using whatever objects she wanted to express herself. Natalie created the sandtray below.

    The Sandtray

    At the front of the sandtray was a wall of superheros. Towards the back she placed a large crab on a pile of sand. Beneath the sand she placed a broken doll with a missing arm and a torn and dirty dress. Natalie began to speak about each object in the sandtray. The superheroes were aggressive protectors of the crab. The crab was protecting the broken dirty doll. The doll was buried and hidden so deep down in the sand…she was punished so terribly punished. Natalie began to sob as she told the story of the doll who was beaten and tortured by a cruel mother who made her stand in the cold garden for many hours without food or water for as long as she could remember. Natalie began to tell her true story. As she began to feel safe she said, ‘this was me when I was a child like this doll’. My mother was psychotic and violent and I lived with terrible beatings and cruelty every day. The child who had never been seen or heard began to speak and tell her truth for the first time. Natalie began to work with the Arts Therapist and her childhood pain bringing it slowly into the light. This began the slow and painful path to her recovery.” (Carrie Herbert 2006)

    Art has been used for physical and mental healing for thousands of years by employing symbols that represent protection, invocation of special powers and that foster transformation. The renowned psychiatrist Carl Jung used patients’ drawings and universal symbols to help them access hidden content in the psyche that could help with resolution of mental problems. He said, “To paint what we see before us is a different art from painting what we see within.”

    Art therapy became quite popular in the 1940’s and 1950’s, especially for doing personality analysis. This has evolved to the current practice by psychologists, art therapists and other professionals of using drawings for assessment and evaluation of mental disorders and emotional issues.

    There are many resources to access if you wish to get involved with art therapy to help yourself or others. One organization is The American Art Therapy Association. It standardized credentials for art therapists in the United States. To obtain certification as an art therapist, you should contact another organization known as the Art Therapy Credentials Board.

    Finding the truth within can be a painful process, though I believe it’s safe to say the rewards usually outweigh the pain encountered. Personal growth using the vehicle of art seems to be tantamount to finding your sea legs on a luxury liner. Dealing with rough seas is much easier in an environment of beauty.

     

  • THE UNCLUTTERED LIFE

     

    Living in modern society in most parts of the world calls for high energy activity in the near-constant pursuit of more money, more power and more stuff. Success is measured by achievement, accumulation, ascension, adoration and any other description of expansion under any letter of the alphabet. These can lead to stress, disappointment, anxiety and an assortment of conditions which stem from a life of complexity. We don’t necessarily see the connection until we are separated from such an existence, either by calamity of some sort or preferably by reflection on how we arrived at this state of gnarled futility.

    The average American full-time employee works 47 hours per week. Let’s say a mother needs to get up by 6:00 AM in order to get the children ready for school and out the door. If she works, she may drop them off at school and head to her workplace where she commences her workday by 8:00. By 6:00 PM, she arrives home and starts dinner. After-dinner cleanup, hopefully with help from family members, wraps at about 7:30. Now it’s time for following up on homework or other needs for the children. Mom and Dad may be able to squeeze in some family business that needs tending or other problems which have cropped up in the daily activities. The remainder of the evening may involve social media upkeep, household administration, reading or other pursuits such as some work-related self-enhancement study. TV, anyone? Any combination of the above could easily take a parent to bedtime, which should be around 10:00 if there’s hope of getting a full night’s sleep. Six or seven hours may have to do. There aren’t enough hours in the day to do those creative things we love.

    Not everyone has such a busy life. Some have worse. There’s the business owner who works over 70 hours to keep the venture alive or the poor person who works three jobs to just pay the bills or the middle management executive who is overwhelmed by orders at all hours from above. How can these people ever get ahead of this madness to simplify their lives? The obvious answer is to merely jettison all of it and start over. It’s not practical, but it would bring a whole new clarity to life. Imagine if you were to take a stand and pledge to eliminate everything from your life that makes it unnecessarily complicated. Examples: Living 50 miles from work in a big city. Spending excessive time on Facebook. Feeding any addiction. Becoming a cause point on these things is an important step to simplifying your life.

     

    Many would say there’s just nothing they can do. To work less or quit a viable job would amount to financial suicide. The children may be the most important aspect of their lives and they want them to have all possible advantages. Being dedicated to reaching goals is an admirable quality. All these points have merit. Perhaps literally downsizing one’s life isn’t the only answer. Why can’t the simple life be stuffed with activity and abundance? What would that take?

    I present a blog excerpt from a helpful website, zenhabits.net, by Leo Babauta. The article is “The Mindfulness Guide for the Super Busy: How to Live Life to the Fullest.” In reference to enjoying life and achieving goals, Mr. Babauta states:

    “It seems contradictory to those who are used to sacrificing living for pursuing their goals … but cultivating mindfulness will help you achieve your goals and enjoy life more.

    Focusing on one task at a time, putting yourself fully into that task, is much more effective than multi-tasking. Focusing on one real goal at a time is also more effective. I’ve proven it to myself time and again over the last few years (see My Story for more). Focusing on what you’re doing right now is highly effective. You’re more productive when you’re mindful.

    But more importantly, being present is undoubtedly the only way to enjoy life to the fullest. By being mindful, you enjoy your food more, you enjoy friends and family more, you enjoy anything you’re doing more. Anything. Even things you might think are drudgery or boring, such as housework, can be amazing if you are truly present. Try it — wash dishes or sweep or cook, and remain fully present. It takes practice, but it’s incredible.”

    The article goes into greater detail to assist anyone who would like to give this Zen staple of life a try. The point I’m making is that an uncluttered life is within reach, no matter how overwhelmed your current situation might be. But whether you’re cultivating the art of parenting, racing to meet a book deadline, or teaching overcrowded classes, it’s being in the present from moment to moment that brings light and pure joy to the vast spaces between each and every atom.

     

     

     

  • NIGHTMARES–THE STUFF OF STORIES YOU CAN’T PUT DOWN

     

    July 17th, 1915 marked the beginning of an ordeal that Cassandra Coraopolis would never forget.

    She and her two-year old son, Alex, were playing on the lawn of their beautiful Connecticut mansion. The summer sun was hot, the air still. With the thought of a cold glass of sweet lemonade, Cassandra rose to her feet and walked into the house.

    Meanwhile, with the heart of a cold shaft of steel, thief-turned-kidnapper Sammy Bannister lurked in the bushes that formed the perimeter of the lawn. He realized this was his chance. He burst through the shrubs, sprinting feverishly in the direction of the child. Sweeping Alex up without breaking stride, Bannister made a wide turn and darted for the foliage cover. Quite predictably, young Alex was startled and a loud cry escaped before his abductor silenced him with a hand applied to the mouth.

    Out of the house ran Cassandra, catching only a glimpse of the stranger disappearing into the bushes with her child. She pursued them, but before she even reached the wall of brush, she heard the sound of an automobile engine starting beyond the small wood ahead of her. The cries of her child, too, emanated from the car and, likewise, they faded in the distance with the engine that carried them away. The road was empty, save for a wisp of dust, by the time Cassandra arrived there.

    This is fiction, unless I tore it from the headlines of a past life. It’s the beginning of a book I haven’t finished writing. I started it because of a dream that played out this scenario. I never took a dream as personally as I did this one, so I felt compelled to get it down on paper. Whether you find it compelling is a matter for you to judge. There are, no doubt, better examples of tales taken from nightmares, sleeping or otherwise.

    One is Stephen King’s Misery, in which an author is injured in a car accident and he comes to in the bed of an obsessive fan who loves him a little too much. Their discussion about where she has put his wallet takes a disturbing turn. ” ‘Just what, Mister Man?’ she persisted, and he saw with alarm that the narrow look was growing blacker and blacker. The crevasse was spreading, as if an earthquake was going on behind her brow. He could hear the steady, keen whine of the wind outside, and he had a sudden image of her picking him up and throwing him over her solid shoulder, where he would lie like a burlap sack slung over a stone wall, and taking him outside, and heaving him into a snowdrift. He would freeze to death, but before he did, his legs would throb and scream.”

    There is definitely an opportunity here to take advantage of an unfortunate situation by using the negative energy from it to enhance our literary efforts. Colleen M. Story, author of Overwhelmed Writer Rescue, writes in her blog on October 24, 2016, “If you’ve been plagued by nightmares for much of your life, here’s the good news:

    It may mean that you’re naturally creative.

    A number of studies have linked the two. Back in the 1980s, The New York Times reported on research that indicated nightmare sufferers may have a natural tendency to gravitate toward the arts, and that there appeared to be a link between nightmares and creative vision.”

    She goes on to say that subsequent studies in each decade since have supported this theory. Even if they were wrong, the fodder from such wild mental gyrations and the attendant emotions gives the writer much to work with in putting plot and detail together. My belief is that these don’t have to come exclusively from dreams and nightmares. Whatever makes us uncomfortable consciously or subconsciously contains a treasure trove of material. A fear of heights was a central theme of a 1954 French novel, the title of which translates in English to From Among the Dead. It was later adapted for the screen in the Hitchcock classic Vertigo. An obsession that leads a character down a path straight into the underbelly of society makes for some heady reading.

    No matter how virtuous a person may seem to the casual observer, there is a dark side, a troubled aspect that is challenging this person to reach inside and find the way through this virtual maze. It is a person’s duty to look the problem straight in the eye and resolve it. To do so by writing about it, whether in a fiction format or as a research tool of some kind, is a  means for triumph for the writer and reader alike.